WHY PEOPLE ARE AGAINST YOU INSPITE OF YOUR DEVOTION ???
If people don’t respects you, it is your fault !
If people ignore you, because you trained them
if people deceive you it is result of your weakness;
Every time you over explain yourself ;
Every time you accept disrespect with smile ;
Every time you lower your standard and mix with them , just to please them;
Every time you accept the demands of others and fulfil them ;
Every time you show your kind heart and come closer to your nearer ones.,,,,, etc.
In doing above things ;
You are teaching people one thing that
my time,
my energy,
my presence,
my money,
my personal life:
All are “CHEAP” and the people are SUPREME !
As a result, they disrespect you ;they ignore you ;they criticise you ; they get angry with you , they befool you ; they used you ; they discuss ugly things about you in your absence ; they don’t acknowledge you; they are not happy with you , etc
Keep in mind :
people only values if you make yourself Expensive. Stop being available 24/7 ; stop responding instantly; stop saying YES when you mean NO; stop falling pray to their “victim card “; stop carrying away by their soft words and flatter ; stop being exploited by the miseries told by them; stop giving attention to the people who won’t give a drop of water when you are in on fire .
When you create distance people feel the loss of your presence and become eager to come nearer to you .
When you create standard ; then people will rise above to match you ; when you say NO, people will try to please you to get YES from your mouth ; when you create silence people wil chase for your approval ; when you make your high moral standards; people will try to become moral like you; when you will turn your face from them ; People will come behind you like a shadow to please you .
So every disrespect and every ignorance ; every criticism ; every blame ; every angry ness of the people is not by them but it is your weakness that you have trained them to do so.
CHANGE YOURSELF TODAY AND BECOME A DIFFERENT PERSON
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