LOVE: AN OUTCOME OF CHEMISTRY
LOVE: AN OUTCOME OF CHEMISTRY
PROF WAQAR HUSSAIN
A year ago, a teenager boy was working on a book shop as salesman. One
evening, the owner of the shop came to me and said: “the boy had expired.” It
stunned me as I used to go to bookshop daily to look for new arrived books or
buy stationary items and used to encounter with the boy. The boy had pleasant,
jovial and noble character. And he was kind to me. His smiling face came on my
mind screen and grief gripped the heart. After some restoration from sorrow, I
inquired the owner: “What happened to the boy?” The owner replied: “He
committed suicide”. I suddenly asked: “Why?” The owner said, “He had a love
affair with a girl and her parents settled her marriage with some one else. In
disappointment and sudden flare of sentiment and rush of thoughts, he threw
gasoline on himself and set fire. He was taken to hospital but couldn’t succumb
to the burns and died.”
After few days, I found a new salesman on the shop, very similar to the
deceased one, I asked, “Who is he?”The owner replied, “He is the younger
brother of that boy, I gave him job to compensate his parents at least
economically. So, he could help his parents to earn bread and butter.” The time
gone by and I kept on visiting the book shop on regular basis.
One day I noticed that new boy is not there since many days. I asked the
owner. “Where is he?” He replied, “Alas! You don’t know? he died in a road
accident last week.” I got severe shock and almost got stunned and came out of
the shop, thinking about the tragedy fell upon the unfortunate parents. But I had
nothing to do. I had no remedy either for accident or suicide. But my mind
struck more on the “willful” departure of the eldest brother. Why he became so
emotional? What compelled him to undergo such a dreadful act? The days passed
by and I remained in perplex to find the answer. One day my friend telephoned
me and sought a piece of advice. He told that his teenager son had fallen in
love with a girl. When, he stopped him meeting that girl and confined him to
home. He is doing unusual things. He takes knife and says I will kill you or my
self. Some time he locks the door from inside and starts shouting and threw
thing here and there.” In reply, I told my friend the tragic episode of the
“lover” boy and gave him certain tips and also advised him to consult
psychiatrist. He followed my instruction, got in touch with doctor of
psychiatry and now his son is recovery rapidly. The above two events persuaded
me to know about the factors which forces an individual to fall in love. Lao
Tzu has rightly said: love is of all
passions the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head, the heart and
the senses. But what is behind this violent passion?
First I started reading Will Durant’s chapter on LOVE from his book: Pleasure of Philosophy.
In the opening paragraph he writes: “Love is by acclaim the most interesting of all forms of
human experience; and it is astonishing that so few have cared to study its
origin and development. What a majestic stream of literature has poured forth
about it in every language, and from almost every pen-what epics, what dramas,
what fiction, what passionate and endless poetry-and yet how little science,
how scare the efforts to scrutinize the wonder objectively, to find its source
in nature and the caused of its marvelous growth from the simple merging of the
protozoa to the devotion of Dante, the ecstasy of Petrarch, and the loyalty of
Heloise to Abelard! Yes, of course, men desire women and love, “which moves the
sun and the other stars, lifts every soul to passing nobility before life ends.
But why?”
I closed the book and followed Will
Durant and started searching the causes of love and started thinking what makes
some one so emotional to abdicate throne like Edward IV; revolt against family
and society like Heer; opt to be squeezed in wall like Anarkali; embrace death
like Romeo and Juliet; stimulate Shah Jehan to build the Taj Mahal; confiscate Napoleon
to do everything for Josephine; encourage Sasi to cross torrent waves of river
in midnight on a pitcher; energies Sussui to search Punhu in vast desert; spend
40 year of loneliness like Queen Victoria after the death of prince Albert in
seclusion; commit suicide like Cleopatra and Anthony; clung of Donelson on
death for Jackson; and above all what made this boy to burn himself alive? So I
started to find its origin, development in science as poets, writers, artists,
play writers, musicians had made considerable progress in understanding the
phenomenon of love but very little on its biological aspect. It is the subject
for which so much is known but about which so little in truly understood! So I
started searching scientific material to know the reasons lying behind this
emotional activity. Astonished to found a lot of research and plenty of
literature were available on the subject. That was enough to answer my baffling
and jittery query. Probably if Will Durant were alive, he would have different
view.
The recent studies have
disclosed that neurochemicals are kindling, fanning and blazing the fire of
love. These chemicals are mostly produced in brain and then go to other parts
of body and create severe multitude of effects. Among many only few are
mentioned below:
Center of emotional love activity is not lying between the legs as many
believe but its epicenter is brain where neurochemical are produced and undergo
chemical reactions that drive emotion of love. The part of brain related to love
passion is primitive or Limbic system. Brain scan showed that the frontal
cortex, vital center of judgment, shuts down when someone falls in love. This
is the reason; it becomes hard to convince a lover. Brain scan further
indicated that area that control fear also close down explaining why lover of
unafraid of what might go wrong. Thus they plunge into extreme, dangerous and
dreadful acts.
Love is the outcome of chemicals present
in brain that have powerful affect on limbic brain centre. These chemicals are
described below:
1.
Dopamine: It is a neurochemical, released by brain which
activates brain rewarding system by triggering intense feeling of pleasure, stimulates
desire which in turn is the driving force behind love. It affects the brain comparable
to taking cocaine (an alkaloid used as local anaesthetic, stimulant and
intoxicant). It increases energy, lessens sleep, focuses attention and creates
exquisite delight.
Aron
conducted a research on 10 women and 7 men who had fallen in love within one
year span. MRI of participants showed high amount of dopamine in ventral tegmental
area (VTA) of brain. It is responsible for the reward and motivation pleasure,
pain, euphoria and a surge may result in acute feeling of reward that makes
love hard to give up. Dopamine activates 5 different types of receptors, most
associated with pleasure, enjoyment and motivate for proactive set of
activities. That is why, advice has no effect on lover, and they carry on their
venture at all cost.
2: New growth
factor (NFG): It is a protein secreted by neural gland and is responsible
for growth, implicate mediator in anxiety, emotional response and change in
behavior. It also provokes for readiness of action and philanthropic behavior.
It belongs to family of protein neurotrophins. Other members include brain
derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), Neurotrophin-3 (NT-3) and Neurotrophin 4/5
(NT-4/5). A research was conducted which disclosed that NFG level was significantly
higher in people having romantic love as compared to other. However, after one
or two year, NFG level reduced to normal. It explains why passion of love fades
after one year!
Marazziti
and Canale carried out a research.
People were divided into two groups; lover group and control group. Level of
BDNF, NT-3 and NT-4/5 remained constant between two groups. Astonishingly, love
group had elevated level of NFG as compared to control group.
People
of love group who remained with their partners, showed return of NFG to normal
level when examined after about a year. . It further elucidates why obsession
of love obliterates after one year!
3:
Serotonin: It is monoamine derived from tryptophan. It is
primarily found in brain, intestine, platelets, etc. It regulates intestinal
movement and haemostasis (stoppage of flow of blood). It is popularly thought
to be contributor of feeling of well-being and happiness. It also explains why
someone falls in love.
Italian
scientists found that people in love has 40% lower serotonin level. It’s level
fall in a similar way to those seen in patients of obsessive-compulsive disorder,
explaining why love make ones feel anxious and nervous.
4:
Testosterone: It is a steroidal
hormone, secreted by testicle of male and the ovaries of female. In males, it develops
male reproductive system and secondary sex characteristics, also increase
general health, muscle, bone mass and growth of body hair. It is essential for
health and well being as well as prevents osteoporosis (brittleness of bone)
and plays a key role in libido energy. Testosterone can be blamed for crazy,
aggressive and weird behavior of some rogue males.
A
research was conducted by dividing people in two group love groups (fallen in
love with last one year) and control group (people either single or in stable
long term relationship). When testosterone level was measured, it came to be
known that men from the love group had lower level of testosterone than men in
control group, while women from the love group had higher testosterone level
than control group women. Probably it exhausted in men during the course of
love activity.
5:
Estrogen: (oestrogens) It is a steroid responsible for
development of female’s reproductive system and secondary sex characteristics.
It is believed romantic love depends on estrogen. Estrogens are present in both
men and women.
6:
Oxytocin: A powerful hormone released by men and women during
orgasm. It is released in human during prolonged eye contact, touch, hugging,
etc. It deepens the feeling of attachment and makes couple feel much closer to
each other after they had sex. It seems to play a role in reducing xenophobia
(fear of stranger), anxiety, reduces fear and promote social behavior such as
pair bonding thereby facilitate social contact and pave the way for making
love. Experiments proved its love driving and pair making effects. In prairie
vole (rat like herbivorous), two hormones oxytocin and vasopressin are
released. If their release in blocked, they stop sex. If injected with these
two hormones, they indulged in frequent sex. In other words, love between voles
is just away from an injection. In an experiment, female prairie vole were
treated with oxytocin, they showed hastened pair bonding. This is the hormone
that causes mother to love her infant. In an experiment, natural release of
oxytocin was blocked in sheep and rate; they rejected their own young ones.
7: Adrenalin: It
is a hormone secreted by adrenal gland present on kidneys. When someone sees
the person one likes, one’s heart races, palms sweets and mouth get dry. It is
all due to this love chemical adrenaline.
Adrenaline also releases in fear.
It means if two people, loosely attached, could go made in love if they come by
any frightening experience. It explains the lure of forbidden love.
8:
Norepinephrine: It is catecholamine with multiple roles
including as a hormone and a neurotransmitter. It affects the part of brain
which control attention and response. It increases heart rate, triggering the
release of glucose, increase blood flow to skeletal muscle, increase brain’s
oxygen supply and stimulates the production of adrenalin. High level of
norepinephrine increases the experience of joy and reduces appetite. In sum,
helps an individual to launch a love affair.
9:
Phenylethylamine (PEA): It is an amine structurally
similar to amphetamine naturally occurring in brain and in foods like
chocolate, bitter almond, etc. It is stimulant that causes the release of
norepinephrine and dopamine. This chemical is found when someone has fallen in
love. It is responsible for exalted intensified love.
The
first attraction trigger production of PEA which results in woozy feeling
associated with romantic love. Larger amount increases both physical and
emotional energy. It is antidepressant and induces positive mood change and promotes
love.
10:
Endorphin: It is a peptide hormone and is found
mainly in brain. It is an endogenous morphine produced by pituitary gland
during exercise, excitement, pain, love, consumption of spicy food. It relieves
pain, calm anxiety and reduces stress, produces feeling of well being and is
associated with feeling of attachment and comfort. All escort towards the
romantic love.
11:
Vasopressin: It is a peptide hormone which functions
to retain water in the body and to constrict blood vessels and play a key role
in homeostasis (stoppage of flow of blood). It co-work with kidney to control
thirst, it is anti-diuretic hormone. Further it plays an important role in
social behavior, sexual motivation and bonding. In an experiment, prairie vole
were injected with vasopressin, they also formed pair bond. When male prairie
voles were given a drug that suppresses the effect of vasopressin, bond-pair
collapsed. Vasopressin has similar effect on human.
12: Cortisol: It
is another steroidal hormone secreted by adrenal cortex. It is synthesized from
its precursor hormone progesterone in adrenal cortex.Its main function to promote
gluconeogenesis(conversion of fat, protein and lactate molecules into glucose),
increases hypertension and prevent excessive immune response. It lessens stress
and may involve in intense attachment.
Scientist found raised cortisol level in persons of love group as
compared to control group, with no difference of sex. When hormone levels were
measured in love group after a year, cortisol level returned to normal. It once
again explained why love recedes in a year or so!
Consequently,
love is nothing but the effect of these chemicals.
Love
is the soul of life, fragrance of flower, colour of rainbow, lapse of a mother,
eternal reality of nature and The Blessing of God. Plato once said: “love is the joy of the good, the wonder of
the wise, the amazement of the Gods”. But it must be in manageable level
and it must not become an obsession, madness and craziness otherwise it is pain
replacing fain, destruction in place of construction and curse instead of
blessing. Follow Oscar Wild: to love
oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. Loving oneself is
essential, vital and universal principle of nature.
I once wrote in
The Muslim newspaper in a thought of the day: Things are neither good nor bad;
it’s their use that makes them so. The passion of love should be used
as positive driving force, a basis of happiness, a source of creativity, an origin
of ventures, a spring of construction, a core of philanthropy, a foundation of
bonding in family, society and the world. The lover boy forget to love his
mother who nourished her; his father who earned livelihood for him; his country
which gave her residing place; His
Creator Who created him as a super creature and his own self by setting aside
Lucille Ball’s advises: love yourself
first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to
get anything done in this world.
Please learn to differentiate
between “love” and “maniac obsession”!
A well informative article. People who think that love is only an emotional behavior towards opposite sex should read this article carefully.
ReplyDeleteVery informative a real feeling of love can easily be known by this article.You really described it well thanks for the article.
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