Sunday, 21 December 2025

WHY PEOPLE ARE AGAINST YOU INSPITE OF YOUR DEVOTION ???

 WHY PEOPLE ARE AGAINST YOU INSPITE OF YOUR DEVOTION ???

If people don’t respects you, it is your fault ! 

If people ignore you,  because you trained them 

if people deceive you it is result of your weakness;  


Every time you over explain yourself ;

Every time you accept disrespect with smile ; 

Every time you lower your standard and mix with them ,  just to please them;  

Every time you accept the demands of others and fulfil them ;

Every time you show your kind heart and come closer  to your nearer ones.,,,,, etc.

In doing above things  ;

 You are teaching people one thing that 

my time, 

my energy, 

my presence,  

my money, 

my personal life: 


All are “CHEAP”  and the people are SUPREME !

 As a result, they disrespect you ;they ignore you ;they criticise you ; they get angry with you , they befool you ; they used you ;  they discuss ugly things about you in your absence ; they don’t acknowledge you; they are not happy with you , etc 

Keep in mind : 

people only values if you make yourself Expensive. Stop being available 24/7 ; stop responding instantly; stop saying YES when you mean NO; stop falling pray to their “victim card “; stop carrying away by their soft words and flatter ; stop being exploited by the miseries told by them; stop giving attention to the people who won’t give a drop of water when you are in on fire .

When you create distance people feel the loss of your presence and become eager to come nearer to you . 

When you create standard ; then people will rise above  to match you ; when you say NO, people will try to please you to get YES from your mouth ; when you create silence people wil chase for your approval ; when you make your  high moral standards; people will try to become moral like you;  when you will turn your face from them ; People will come behind you like a shadow to please  you . 


So every disrespect and every ignorance ;  every criticism ; every blame ; every angry ness of the people is not by them but it is your weakness that you have trained them to do so. 

CHANGE YOURSELF TODAY AND BECOME A DIFFERENT PERSON

Thursday, 5 January 2023

Who is a man?

 


کمال انسان وہ ہے جسے دیکھیں تو پہلے آنکھ کو اچھا لگے اور پھر دل کو اچھا لگے ۔


Monday, 19 December 2022

STRATEGY IN EMERGENCY SITUATION

 جب قتل عام ہو رہا ہو تو بہترین حکمت عملی یہ ہوتی ہے کہ جلادوں سے مل جاؤ ۔

Sunday, 18 December 2022

HOW TO FIGHT DISEASE

 بیماری کتے کی طرع ہوتی ہے ؛ خوف زدہ ہو جاؤ تو پیچھے پڑ جاتی ہے۔ ڈٹ جاؤ تو ڈر کے بھاگ جاتی ہے۔

مالی مشکلات سے نجات

 صدیوں سے مالی مشکلات سے بچنے کے دو ہی طریقے ہیں ؛

جو آمدن ہے اُس سے کم خرچ کرو

یا

جو خرچ کرتے ہو، اس سے آمدن زیادہ کر لو !



WHAT IS MATURITY

 IT IS THE SKILL OF TO WALK AWAY FROM SITUATION THAT THREATEN ONE'S PEACE OF MIND.

 


WHY PEOPLE ARE AGAINST YOU INSPITE OF YOUR DEVOTION ???

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